Misogyny

Assalamualaikum wbt guys! Hey hey hey! I'm come back again with the topic of "Sign of Misogyny".

Are you wondering the meaning of 'misogyny'? hehe.. For those who don't have an idea don't worry! I'll let you know my darling readers. Alolo senyum ah sikit... ha kan cantikk :D

Misogyny ni maksudnya kebencian terhadap wanita. Ceh.. saja nak bombastik artisik sikit..

I'm trying to invent a beautiful ellegorical term for this night. kihkih.. Plus boleh la improve English sikit. For your information, I got Band 3 in MUET. Quite proud too. Bolehlah.. hehe.. Saja nak habak kat korang. Ok lupakan. Sebab aku tahu korang hebat2 cakap mat salleh mat solleh ni..

Alright here we go. Actually there are many type of misogyny. But I just want to focus on rap case. I keep thingking about rap, murder and anything about sexual harresment by men since I performed solat tarawikh last night. I hope by doing this a little can help them, by feel the feelings of women and chidren out there who be the victim of misogyny. Rap is a type of misogyny.

Terlalu kerap kes rogol, pembunuhan dan sebagainya terpampang gah di dada akhbar. Perkara ni membuatkan hati aku terdetik dan berasa takut. I was imagined that what if  such is happening to me? Ya Allah lindungilah aku! It was cruel and lost of humane considerations! Where is your humanity o mankind ?

I don't know who should be blamed? The woman or the man?

As we know, the only lust that man have is sexuality. They can't resist their lust when got a sexy woman walking infront of them. So in this case, woman should be blamed. She is intentionally make the man become arroused. And this may lead the man to do rap her! Why don't you cover your aurat or at least dress politely if you don't want it to be happened? Please respect the others 'bitch'! Kalau rasa tak suka nak bertudung pun, tolonglah dress politely is good enough! Alhamdulillah dah.. 

Sometimes, when the girl has covered up their aurat perfectly  and act with good manners but still got rapped. So now, who should be blamed? The woman or the man? In this case of course the man should be blamed! The girl has fulfilled her responsibility as muslimah. But why rap is still happening? In my opinion rap is still happening because of the low quality of "imaan". Solat entah ke mana. Puasa lagilah. Pula tu banyak pula makanan yang shubhah sekarang ni. Lagi mudahlah hati kita ni nak kotor. :( Jadi berhati2lah nak beli makanan tu. Sangat penting tanda halal pada paket makanan yang korang beli. So prihatin sikit! sebab makanan pun boleh jadi punca kekotoran jiwa. huu

Based on my observation through news, and blah.. blah.. I can say that the misogyny can be created by man and woman. Kenapa wanita nak membenci kaum sendiri pulak? Takkanlah! tak pun kalau orang indon cakap 'masaaa sih????' hehe.. Kebencian terhadap kaum wanita itu boleh dicipta oleh wanita itu sendiri apabila, dia tak mampu nak hormati dirinya sendiri. Contohnya macam senang-senang je perempuan ni calling2 tergedik2 dengan mamat yang baru je kenal kat FB beberapa saat yang lalu. O my Allah! Adik! Akak! Makcik! Mana perginya akal yang Allah bagi tu? Sebab ada satu kisah benar ni, Aku sendiri tak sangka benda2 ni memang betul2 berlaku.

Suzi (bukan nama sebenar) . Baru je kenal ngan mamat mana entah. Baru 2 minggu ke 2 bulan entah kenal dah bagi macam2 dekat mamat tu. Suzi ni percaya yang mamat tu memang sayang akan dia. So dia bagi semua gambar yang tak sepatutnya kat laki tu. And after a week, the guy asks her for a thousand ringgit Malaysia! Kalau tak bagi, laki tu akan sebarkan segala gambar2 perempuan itu di internet. Kalau Suzi ni bagi duit tu pun, ingat laki tu bodoh ke? tak boleh buat copy banyak2 gambar tu then asks for a lot of money more! See! the misogyny was created by the girl! Memanglah mamat tu jahat. Tapi kalau si Suzi ni tak menggatal, fikir betul2 dan takut dengan Allah, this misogyny couldn't be happened bro! So nampak tak?

Dan kalau lelaki ni gentle macam konon oppa Gang nam style lah sangat en? Kalau dia ni betul2 lelaki? Kalau dia tu betul2 sayangkan Suzi tu, dia takkan minta benda2 macam tu lah. Sentuh pun tak akan.

Akan ada orang yang berilmu buat perkara macam tu TETAPI atas dasar dirinya sendiri. Orang yang benar2 berpegang pada jalan Allah, berilmu, beriman, bertaqwa takkan buat perkara macamtu.  No misogyny! No crimes! No sexual harrassment! No fitnah!  Live in peace! Freedom! Kalau semua orang di atas dunia ni berfikiran dan berkelakuan baik, ada rasa tanggungjawab dan tolak ansur, sumpah melimpah2 rahmat Allah bagi kat kita. Kita akan hidup aman dan damai. Tapi malangnya manusia akhir zaman bukanlah seperti itu! Apa-apa pun kita kena berbalik pada jalan Allah. Cukup sekadar kau mengingatiNya pasti kau akan terpelihara.

Therefore i can conclude that imaan is the pegs of everything. Respect yourself, respect the rest and you've being the best! Wallahhualambissawab.. So guys,  keep our faith on the only Him. Segala yang baik datang dari Allah dan yang buruk, silap aku sendiri. Assalamualaikum wbt... Peace! <3